But when your life’s already been defined by curiosity, making room in the silence for humanity is genuine, not forced. Listening doesn’t come easy, I know from personal experience it’s hard to quell the urge to fill every silence and sit in what’s perhaps uncomfortable to see what’s on the other side.
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The secret to becoming one of the greatest living interviewers? After “sixteen years consumed by the question of how to conduct a good interview, how to get interesting people to reveal the depths of who they are, how to earn their trust so that our conversation can go to unexpected places,” Debbie Millman has discovered a deceptively simple answer: You listen. There’s such exquisite rarity begging to be savored when queer women fall into conversation together, and the selections of Why Design Matters has some of the greats: Alison Bechdel, Eileen Myles, Carmen Maria Machado, and Maria Popova all are present for interviews, with Roxane Gay writing the foreword and Popova writing the afterword. Which isn’t to say that Design Matters is not gay at all - far from it. In the introduction to her anthology, a tribute to her life’s work, Debbie Millman writes that this is “a love letter to creativity, a testament to the power of curiosity.” Maybe Design Matters isn’t explicitly queer, but the longest-running podcast in history - with more than 40 million downloads and counting - comes from the mind of a lesbian, so I’m deeply invested in reclaiming it as our culture. Did I mention ( in case you didn’t know) that her wife is Roxane Gay? And this stunning career does not even begin to touch on Design Matters, which in its 18 years has gained a Cooper Hewitt National Design Award, six Webby nominations, and named best overall podcast by Apple podcasts. In a time where “content creation” has become the buzzword of the day, you cannot step foot into elite creative circles and not hear Debbie Millman’s name. She’s currently the president emeritus of the American Institute of Graphic Art, co-owner and editorial director at Print magazine, and co-founder and chair of the world’s first graduate program in branding at the School of Visual Arts in New York City - where she also currently teaches. Her open curiosity has propelled a career spanning writing, design, and branding for decades. Warmth.Īnd no one, and I mean no one, is as curious as Debbie Millman.
In listening to her ask famous creatives about their practice, “how they design their lives,” I’ve found such solace and inspiration. It’s fitting that this review is almost a week late publishing due to my depression induced writer’s block, since Debbie Millman is someone whom I often joke has become my lesbian Brené Brown. It’s fitting that it’s Design Matters, because falling into Debbie Millman’s significant backlog - nearly 500, episodes spanning 18 years, the longest ever in history - became my pandemic salve.
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Hooking my phone up to the Bluetooth speakers in my kitchen and letting conversations wash over me like friends while I gather flour and sugar. Sunday morning pancakes time is when I listen to all my podcasts. It’s fitting that this review of Why Design Matters, a curated anthology celebrating Debbie Millman’s historic and sublime interview podcast Design Matters, is publishing on a Sunday.